Friday, August 28, 2009

Acceptance


Greetings to You ~


I’m back from a ten day trip in Colorado spent with family and friends.


It was a busy time filled with a mix of activities.


Now it’s time to shift back to a new routine and ground my energy. Time to focus on a vision for the future and start to create it.


Acceptance is a word that keeps running through my mind. Am I resisting my desires and who I am right now?


Accept and love yourself completely right now. Be gentle and don’t judge yourself. Accept what you think is good and what you think is undesirable. Accept your feelings and current circumstances.


You are human and you’re feeling a wide spectrum of emotions. Accept all of them. Love yourself and know that you’re here to experience all of it.


Don’t worry about time. Don’t worry about money. Don’t worry about what you’ve done, not done, need to do.


Just breathe and accept every part of yourself. You’re learning, growing and changing. Every experience is sculpting who you are.


Just like the Colorado National Monument. The environment, circumstances and external conditions played a part in changing the original rock wall into unique rock formations.


There were natural vulnerabilities and fractures within the rock wall that increased its erosion. There were also less resistant, underlying parts of the rock, that helped smooth the rough edges brought on by its environment.


You’re not so different as you adapt and change to conditions in your life.


Gently put aside your resistance. Love and accept yourself and your journey.

Are you ready?

Peace,
Sheila 
xo

Tuesday, August 11, 2009

Clear the Path


Greetings to You ~

This past weekend was social and fun. We went out for dinner with friends on Saturday and Sunday we had our family over for dinner to celebrate my husband's birthday a few days in advance.

Then I woke up with Monday brain. Where did my inspiration go? Where did my clarity with taking next steps go? Why was I feeling stuck?

I started doing business research on the Internet and became overwhelmed and scattered. Along with that came uncertainty and doubt about whether I'm headed in the right direction.

Breathe.

My environment was clear and organized but I realized that my mind was cluttered. My computer's task bar had To Do items that went beyond the length of the screen. It was time to either delete old items or get some things done.

A couple of weeks ago I noticed I had a tendency to put things off when tasks appeared to take extra effort. But that only meant I'd replay the same painful experience in the future with not having it done. I needed to focus on the little things that were tripping me up.

Millionaire master coach David Neagle says in his Art of Success audio (free to download by the way) that the Universe works in an orderly manner and that order removes confusion.

Here are some of the things I did yesterday that helped bring me order and clarity:
  • Removed tasks from my To Do list that were no longer relevant or necessary.
  • Reviewed downloaded photos and set up new folders to store them on my Mac.
  • Shopped in the evening for items I needed and found available on-line.
  • Organized my travel documents and started the process of packing for an upcoming trip.
I reminded myself to use my Three Action Process (TAP) to start the day. What will help me TAP into my greatness?
  1. Something I want to do.
  2. Something I am resisting (but know I'll feel better once it's done).
  3. Something else.
The everyday things always get done without scheduling.

I closed my email program for most of the day today so that I wouldn't be distracted by the icon that shows how many unread messages I have waiting for me.

The result? Progress with something that's important to me. Preparing for my first business planning session with my coach/mentor.

My feeling at the end of the day? I feel focussed and back on track.

What actions can help clear your path and bring a sense of order into your world?

Peace,
Sheila
xo

Thursday, August 6, 2009

The Door to Possibilities


Greetings to You ~

The past few days have held much angst about making a decision to move forward with a business decision.

Have you experienced a time when your heart knew what you wanted but your head warned you, "I don't know, be cautious, this may not work, it sounds risky."

The tug of war with staying the same vs. the possibilities of doing and being something greater. We'd easily make the decision if we had a guarantee of success. We'd easily make the decision if we knew it would be the right choice.

It felt like I was holding on to the door handle but not opening the door. So close to entering, but I could still walk away.

So I was asked to write out what I was drawn to and why I wanted it. Write down my fears, doubts and worries and release them to the Universe and be open to receiving signs or signals on what's the best choice.

My mind had already made a practical choice, one that was a stretch but wasn't too far past my comfort zone.

Then came the wisdom from Dan Millman's book the "Laws of Spirit."
"Yes. Worthwhile goals demand effort, risk, and sacrifice. You have to persist through fear and doubt; you have to draw on inner resources and become more than you were before. Every new challenge serves as an initiation: You meet discouragement; you overcome discomfort, boredom, and frustration; and you find out what you're made of...
Go toward what attracts or excites or inspires you - toward what touches your heart."
Today I walked through the door that was far beyond the comfort zone of my reasoning mind. A place where there will be change but also possibilities. A commitment to action with no guarantee of success but a strong sense of faith that it's the right thing.

Funny enough it felt easier walking through the door than standing on the other side not making a decision.

It's always about just taking the next step.

Peace,
Sheila
xo

Tuesday, August 4, 2009

Awareness


Greetings to You ~

The past few days have been full of a-ha moments about hidden areas to grow.

Just like a rose that starts out tight as a bud. As we open and expand so does our awareness.

We may have just started the process of inner growth or further along the path. But as we continue to grow and open up we recognize there's still more that's unfolding.

When my awareness opens up, I see areas that I want to change and need to adapt to in order to grow. Bits of resistance come up and I hear myself saying, "How could I have said or acted like that? Gosh, I have a long way to go."

Then I stop and say, "Whether I'm a tight rose bud or I am fully blooming in my greatness, I still love and accept myself."

Awareness and self-discovery is part of our inner growth and transformation. Love yourself!

Peace,
Sheila
xo